I’m Coming Out

Oh hey, I figure I should make this post seeing as I have time now and no one is around to interrupt me at the moment so I have an announcement!

I’ve done a little soul searching for the last while about gender and what it means to me and how I relate to it, and really I’ve always been under the impression that gender (and sexuality) are, in fact, social constructs and that they don’t actually exist because everyone really has a unique way of seeing themselves and others. (although I mean don’t exist in the way that like cold doesn’t exist and dark doesn’t exist and I hope you get what I mean I respect everyone’s label and think they’re helpful and telling other people about what we experience)

But I’m off topic! I realized the biggest reason I felt this way, especially towards gender, is because I’m really agendered myself. I don’t really fit into either category and how I dress depends on the day and how I act, well that can change at the drop of a hat.

So yeah this is me officially coming out on on Tumblr as agender. I would like to thank Tumblr in particular on educating me and what it meant and coming to terms with it. Oh, and if you’re wondering what pronouns to use you can use what you feel suits me in the moment, I don’t really care too much though feel free to use gender neutral ones as a default.

I kinda wish I had a big agender sparkle gif or something, so just imagine it being here instead.

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