a-little-bi-furious:

momentsrespite:

queerdybbuk:

samanticshift:

exploringmyscales:

samanticshift:

like the number of people reblogging that shitty post about “why the xkit guy left” makes me fucking sick.

you can criticize people for immediately sending him hate without invalidating potential victims and suggesting that “bitches lie so who cares, he obviously didn’t do anything”

because hey, guess what? you’re also jumping to a conclusion! the conclusion that it didn’t happen and was an entirely made-up story.

and you know what kind of people jump to that conclusion?

abuse apologists!

i cannot fucking believe that i am seeing this bullshit from self-identified feminists. you should damn well know better.

My issue is that?? No one Came forward. Like 0 people.One person said “I think he’s maybe an abuser” and they asked for proof or other testemonies of people he allegedly abused and then- nothing. Zip. No one came forward.

one person spoke to the predators-exposed blog about an altercation while they were underage and he was of age. this person did not feel comfortable identifying themselves, which is why the blog made the initial post asking for other testimonies. so actually, someone did “come forward,” but because we live in a world that treats victims like shit, we’ll never know who it was or exactly what happened. this post goes into more detail.

so yeah, if you could stop being wrong on my post that’d be swell.

like why did everyyyyyyyy post that got notes when this post talk about how his lifes been Ruined how false accusations Ruin mens Lives and its like…..youre all doing your best to shit on survivors, huh?

God I’m glad he left you shitlords behind

If by “he” you mean xkit guy, he didn’t leave, he never left and he’ll continue to do stuff for tumblr users, the assumption he got bullied of tumblr because of this is false, it was merely assumed to be connected to his absence which spanned months before the blog post was even made.

This post was talking about how everyone immediately jumped to abuse apologism and conclusions that it was to “defame him” before any of the dust settled, now thanks to the overwhelming support for the guy (including threats to kill and harm the person who sent the anon messages to predator-exposed) and the ham-fisted way the whole thing was handled we may never know if any abuse did occur or not and survivors were greeted all over tumblr with a lot of completely unecessary abuse apologism and abuse denialism.

That shit is kinda telling and scary for a lot of survivors who have had to deal with this kind of shit when bringing their own abuse up, a lot of those posts were not tagged properly and ended up triggering a lot of survivors too, I don’t know what part of saying that is offensive to you.

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