i am having a problem with misgendering dani
as in, i don’t think i can be trusted to reliably do so when i am fogged
it’s getting to a point, the more accustomed i am to correctly gendering her in private, where i don’t think i’m going to be able to speak to her parents any more until she is out
i was just having an argument with her mom in my head and correctly gendering her— and i realised that that is something that could easily happen when i am angry, or excited, or even just tired and confused
this is a problem
How can we solve this? I’m not ready to come out to anyone.
i know you’re not and i don’t know how to solve it other than to just live upstairs and avoid your parents
just.. just tell them i’m really sick or smth. it won’t be far from the truth
You can always do what I do when I mess up pronouns (which is a lot because I’m easily tongue tied) correct yourself, make a funny gibberish sound like you got tongue tied and are trying to loosen it up and continue on.
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