“Why do you flinch so hard?”
Maybe there was a time when someone wasn’t kidding when they swung at me.
yup. right up there with “why do you get so panicky when people raise their voice?” males particularly.
Not even just in an abuse sense (I have that too) but literally I’ve had a few times where someone went to swing at me jokingly or throw a ball at my face but not let go and their and slipped or they miscalculated and I got hit in the face.