this is actually how I found out I was agender

phorusrhacids:

a letter to cis people:

please take one or two weeks to explore gender if you havent already. follow some trans blogs, look at the archives, learn new words, call yourself trans and see how it feels. try on some new genders to see which one fits you best dont just be stuck with a gender that kind of fits but not quite. gender is an adventure that everyone should know